Fear-Setting: Your Path to Move Beyond Fear

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Today at a Glance:

• Fear-Setting: The Most Valuable Exercise I Do Every Month

• ‘Cyclic Sighing’ Can Help Breathe Away Anxiety

• Managing Money Is Easy, Managing Wealth Isn’t

Fear-Setting: The Most Valuable Exercise I Do Every Month
Tim Ferriss

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Fear-setting, a powerful exercise, has been the cornerstone of Tim Ferriss' notable successes, steering him away from disastrous choices both in business and personal endeavors. Picture this: Hans, in Rio de Janeiro, standing on the edge of a cliff, his heart pounding, feet planted, and his guide shouting in a language he doesn't understand. But the message is clear: run. Moments later, suspended above the vibrant Brazilian landscape paragliding, he experiences an epiphany. The fear that once paralyzed him now seems distant. Promptly quitting his law job in LA, Hans embraces a new path, founding a surf adventure company and finding love. His story underscores the transformative power of confronting, but also understanding, fears. Similarly, Tim's journey from disillusionment to clarity began with a realization: defining his worst-case scenario liberated him from crippling anxiety. What appeared insurmountable revealed itself as manageable setbacks, clearing the path for profound growth. Fear, often disguised as optimistic denial, stalls progress. Recognizing this, we should evaluate our situations honestly. Are we merely enduring, hoping for change, or ready to leap into the unknown? Life's too long to settle. It's time to redefine our fears, for in their conquest lies our true potential.

Note: Check out this video overview of fear-setting.

Action!

1. Confront your fears by imagining the worst-case scenario in detail. Consider how likely these outcomes are and whether they would truly be permanent.

2. Plan steps to mitigate potential damage or setbacks, even if they seem daunting. Recognize that regaining control may be easier than you think.

3. Identify potential positive outcomes of more likely scenarios, both immediate and lasting. Evaluate their impact and the likelihood of achieving them.

4. Confront tasks you've been avoiding due to fear. Embrace discomfort and commit to tackling one fear-inducing action each day.

5. Assess the costs of delaying action, including financial, emotional, and physical tolls. Consider where you'll be in the future if you continue to procrastinate.

6. Stop waiting for the "perfect" moment and take action. Recognize that fear often holds you back, but embracing action is key to success and fulfillment.

‘Cyclic Sighing’ Can Help Breathe Away Anxiety
Hadley Leggett

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Feeling anxious? You're not alone. But here's the good news: there's a simple, at-home remedy that can help ease your stress levels, and it's called cyclic sighing. Just five minutes of this controlled breathing exercise can dial down your anxiety, boost your mood, and even chill out your resting breathing rate. Dr. David Spiegel from Stanford Medicine explains that controlling your breath taps into your body's stress response system, putting you back in the driver's seat. Picture this: a stressful email or a call from the principal triggers a physical chain reaction of tension, sweat, and restlessness. But, taking deep, deliberate sighs interrupts the cycle, giving you a breather. This technique isn't new—think yoga and meditation—but scientists are now digging into how it works. In a recent study, cyclic sighing outperformed other breathing exercises in lifting spirits, and its effects got better with time. Plus, it's free, side effect-free, and can be done anywhere, anytime. So why not give it a shot?

Action!

1. Breathe in through your nose, filling your lungs as much as you comfortably can.

2. Take a second, deeper sip of air to expand your lungs as much as possible.

3. Then, very slowly, exhale through your mouth until all the air is gone.

4. Repeat this 2 to 3 times, but up to 5 minutes to get the full effect.

Managing Money Is Easy, Managing Wealth Isn’t
Anthony Isola

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Navigating finances is straightforward, but true wealth? That's a different story. We often grapple with defining what really matters. While building a solid portfolio can be as simple as investing consistently in low-cost index funds, understanding wealth involves more than just numbers—it's about contentment and meaningful living. Finding fulfillment demands more than a retirement goal; it requires reflection. Instead of diving into the chaos of social media in the morning, why not start the day with ancient wisdom? Seneca, for instance, pointed out how we guard our possessions fiercely but freely give away our time. Real wealth lies in how we spend our days, not just in our bank accounts. So, instead of procrastinating, seize the moment. Time isn't infinite, and neither is life. Ultimately, managing wealth starts with valuing your most precious asset: time. After all, this isn't a rehearsal – it's your life.

Action!

1. Value your time as your most precious asset and do not give it away thoughtlessly. Whenever you’re busying yourself fulfilling other’s goals, think about whether you would’ve given away your own money as easily as your time.

2. Address goals promptly rather than postponing them for an uncertain future. Don’t fall into the trap of saying “I’ll wait until I retire to do this or that”.

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FUN FACT

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